I'm a 40-year-old-virgin, and I don't give a fuck who knows! Sexual intercourse, in what's supposed to be a free country, should be a matter of choice. I can't say yes to sex at this point in time because this so-called "society" makes it sound as if sex is mandatory. And when people tell me what to do, it pisses me off and it encourges me to do the oppose. "You have to have sex. If you don't, you're going to suffer." Right. And if that's true, then I'm President Laura Roslin: Leader of the Twelve Colonies! Besides, there's this thing called freedom of choice. Look into it!!!
In a civilized world, people of a wide variety of types would be accepted for who they are. But since we live in an unciviled pseudo-society, those who are sexually inactive are labelled abberant and disturbed. But I'll tell you what. If you want me to become sexually active, tell me NOT to have sex. That way, I'll be inclined to have sex simply out of definance. Because as I said before, I HATE when people (who have no authority over me) tell me what to do! If you give me a choice instead of an order, I'll be more likely to do what you want me to do. Doesn't that make sense?!?
In a civilized world, people of a wide variety of types would be accepted for who they are. But since we live in an unciviled pseudo-society, those who are sexually inactive are labelled abberant and disturbed. But I'll tell you what. If you want me to become sexually active, tell me NOT to have sex. That way, I'll be inclined to have sex simply out of definance. Because as I said before, I HATE when people (who have no authority over me) tell me what to do! If you give me a choice instead of an order, I'll be more likely to do what you want me to do. Doesn't that make sense?!?
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Re: I'm tired of the celebacy "stigma"!
Mon, August 15, 2005 - 9:43 PMYay! I'm a 31 year old virgin! heh Do you belong to the virgin tribe?
When I tell people I'm a virgin, right away they think something is wrong with me. As if my lack of interest in making a genetic contribution to the next generation bars makes me somehow less human. Others seem to think the fact that I don't want to have sex stems from some superiority complex... well, that's besides the point. ;)
In support of ZPG, I choose not to breed and so don't feel pressed to go out and have sex with people I don't particularly like. There's already too many people in the world.
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Mon, August 15, 2005 - 10:01 PMbut dude.. don't you get horny and just want to fuck...? i mean c'mon!!!! -
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Tue, August 16, 2005 - 8:14 AMmark - somehow i am guessing they masturbate a lot. -
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Tue, August 16, 2005 - 9:21 AMno. masturbation is popular... so he probably doesn't do that either. haha. -
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Tue, August 16, 2005 - 9:48 AMActually, masterbation is one of the few popular ideas I can deal with! -
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Tue, August 16, 2005 - 12:40 PMyou conformist!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tue, August 16, 2005 - 3:13 PMI am celibate. I am divorced. I am waiting for the man that I want to live with for the rest of my life, whom I will marry, before I have sex again. Yes, I get horny. Yes, I pick up the phone numbers of old buddies who would be more than willing to ease my stress, but I don't call them. Why? I have more respect for myself then to let someone I don't love stick his body parts into my body. Sex is very special to me, and I don't just give it away. Besides, there are some great vibrators out there that can ease my stress in less than 2 minutes, which is something a MAN could never do. I am all for efficiency dammit. -
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Tue, August 16, 2005 - 7:42 PMdamn 2 minutes...I can get it done in half that...just kiddin:) -
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Wed, August 17, 2005 - 10:09 PMheheheheeheheheheheheheh
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Sat, August 20, 2005 - 10:03 PMdude im sorry nothin personel but i call bullshit -
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Mon, August 22, 2005 - 8:10 AMHey, I give all of the over 20 virgins a ton of respect. It seems to be harder to retain your virginity and stay in the respected crowd as opposed to the "Dude, you are so full of shit/fucked up" crowd. Don't get me wrong, I love having sex with my husband, but I did my share of anyone I wanted and it didn't really satisfy anything other than that momentary need. Now, I agree with the last female that respnded, vibrator or not, if I am in a hurry and feel the urge, I have it down to a science. a little here a little there, some pressure over here, wiggle that and mmmmmmmmmmmm. DONE! In less time than it takes to heat up a bag of popcorn.
So, BS or not, you virgins have my respect and I am in complete awe of you all.
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Re: I'm tired of the celebacy "stigma"!
Tue, August 23, 2005 - 10:07 PMHeck, I respect anyone who doesnt give a damn what other people think. Anyone who can be themselves, even with all the crap people give them for it, is OK in my book. -
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Wed, August 24, 2005 - 7:52 AMDamn skippy Trent!
I mean seriously, why would anyone risk AIDS, Chlamydia, Ghonorrea and so on just so that everyone else would think they were cool? Why risk an unwanted pregnancy that you either have to abort or carry for 9 months and give up for adoption, OR be stuck with for the next 18+ years? Sex is not that damn important people. Sex can be a beautiful thing between people who love each other, otherwise, it's just a means to an end. I say, buy yourself a pocket pussy or a dildo and take care of your sexual urges yourself, and try getting to know a person well before you make the most serious decision in your physical life. To risk death for a few moments of sexual gratification, or not.
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